Today's talk at The Feast:
Empty love tank makes you
1. needy person
2. angry person
Relationship or rulership?
C-control
U-unforgiving
R-reactive
S-shaming
E-ego-driven
Control
Relationship is about trust..there is weak trust if there is a lot of control..coming from an empty love tank
Unforgiving
Ephesians 4:32
You cannot forget the things of the past
Reactive
Love is not provoked..
You have to let the person control himself
Shouting only works if there is fire
RULE: only shout in the house when there is fire
Shaming
Instead of correcting a behavior one would say there is something wrong with you..like baket di mo magaya ang kapatid mo? there is an intention to shame someone
Ego-driven
selfish
You cannot dominate another God-look-a-like person
we try to fix others because we've bought into a blatant lie that the other person's performance will solve our deepest needs
give up trying to fix the other person, your job is to LOVE them UNCONDITIONALLY
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