Lesson 1:
A man is getting into the shower just as his wife is finishing up her shower, when the doorbell rings.
The wife quickly wraps herself in a towel and runs downstairs.
When she opens the door, there stands Bob, the next-door neighbour.
Before she says a word, Bob says, 'I'll give you £800 to drop that towel.'
After thinking for a moment, the woman drops her towel and stands naked in front of Bob, after a few seconds, Bob hands her £800 and leaves.
The woman wraps back up in the towel and goes back upstairs.
When she gets to the bathroom, her husband asks, 'Who was that?'
'It was Bob the next door neighbour,' she replies.
'Great,' the husband says, 'did he say anything about the £800 he owes me?'
Moral of the story:
If you share critical information pertaining to credit and risk with your shareholders in time, you may be in a position to prevent avoidable exposure.
Lesson 2: (omitted intentionally)
......
Moral of the story:
If you are not well informed in your job, you might miss a great opportunity.
Lesson 3:
A sales rep, an administration clerk, and the manager are walking to lunch when they find an antique oil lamp.
They rub it and a Genie comes out.
The Genie says, 'I'll give each of you just one wish.'
'Me first! Me first!' says the admin clerk. 'I want to be in the Bahamas, driving a speedboat, without a care in the world.'
Puff! She's gone.
'Me next! Me next!' says the sales rep. 'I want to be in Hawaii , relaxing on the beach with my personal masseuse, an endless supply of Pina Coladas and the love of my life.'
Puff! He's gone.
'OK, you're up,' the Genie says to the manager.
The manager says, 'I want those two back in the office after lunch.'
Moral of the story:
Always let your boss have the first say.
Lesson 4
An eagle was sitting on a tree resting, doing nothing.
A small rabbit saw the eagle and asked him, 'Can I also sit like you and do nothing?'
The eagle answered: 'Sure, why not.'
So, the rabbit sat on the ground below the eagle and rested. All of a sudden, a fox appeared, jumped on the rabbit and ate it.
Moral of the story:
To be sitting and doing nothing, you must be sitting very, very high up.
Lesson 5
A turkey was chatting with a bull.
'I would love to be able to get to the top of that tree' sighed the turkey, 'but I haven't got the energy.'
'Well, why don't you nibble on some of my droppings?' replied the bull. They're packed with nutrients.'
The turkey pecked at a lump of dung, and found it actually gave him enough strength to reach the lowest branch of the tree.
The next day, after eating some more dung, he reached the second branch.
Finally after a fourth night, the turkey was proudly perched at the top of the tree.
He was promptly spotted by a farmer, who shot him out of the tree.
Moral of the story:
Bull Shit might get you to the top, but it won't keep you there..
Lesson 6
A little bird was flying south for the winter. It was so cold the bird froze and fell to the ground into a large field.
While he was lying there, a cow came by and dropped some dung on him.
As the frozen bird lay there in the pile of cow dung, he began to realize how warm he was.
The dung was actually thawing him out!
He lay there all warm and happy, and soon began to sing for joy.
A passing cat heard the bird singing and came to investigate.
Following the sound, the cat discovered the bird under the pile of cow dung, and promptly dug him out and ate him.
Morals of the story:
(1) Not everyone who shits on you is your enemy.
(2) Not everyone who gets you out of shit is your friend.
(3) And when you're in deep shit, it's best to keep your mouth shut!
THUS ENDS THE FIVE MINUTE MANAGEMENT COURSE
Sunday, July 22, 2012
Friday, July 13, 2012
On long distance relationship
Advice on long distance relationships
Question: Do you believe in long distance relationships?
personally depende sa karanasan ng isang tao
mahirap dalhin at panatilihin ang pagtitinginan at pagmamahalan ng isang long distance relationship
kesehodang araw araw kayo nagchachat or video chat or nagtatawagan
kahit pa sabihin nating may full commitment
kung walang INTIMACY
lahat maglalaho na parang isang iglap
marupok ang isang tao
lalo na pag tawag ng laman
mahirap labanan ang tukso
minsan napapalingon sa iba kahit alam nating bawal
if we are mature enough and have grown in wisdom
siguro kaya nating pigilan ang tukso at di gawin ang bawal
pano nga ba naghihiwalay ang mga magkasintahan sa isang long distance relationship
dahil ba bata pa sila
dahil ba wala silang commitment sa isa't isa
o sadyang tinadhana na hinde sila para sa isa't isa
ang pangatlong dahilan ang syang pinakamasakit
lalo na kung binuo mo ang yung mga pangarap na umiikot sa kanya
lalo na kung binigay mo na ang lahat sa kanya
pati sakripisyo
minsan hinihiling pa ng isang tao na mainlove sa isang tao
o hilingin sa Diyos na ung natitipuhan ay yun na ang makakatuluyan
MALI po
dapat sana hilingin natin sa Diyos na yung TUNAY na karapat dapat ang makikilala natin at makatuluyan
hayaan lang natin ang panahon
kung anuman ang nangyari sa isang long distance relationship
hinde kaya dahil hinde sya karapat dapat sa atin
masakit pero dapat tanggapin
matagal pa bago mawala ang sakit
matagal tagal pa bago makalimutan ang mga alaala
but the scar will lasts for a lifetime..
Question: Do you believe in long distance relationships?
personally depende sa karanasan ng isang tao
mahirap dalhin at panatilihin ang pagtitinginan at pagmamahalan ng isang long distance relationship
kesehodang araw araw kayo nagchachat or video chat or nagtatawagan
kahit pa sabihin nating may full commitment
kung walang INTIMACY
lahat maglalaho na parang isang iglap
marupok ang isang tao
lalo na pag tawag ng laman
mahirap labanan ang tukso
minsan napapalingon sa iba kahit alam nating bawal
if we are mature enough and have grown in wisdom
siguro kaya nating pigilan ang tukso at di gawin ang bawal
pano nga ba naghihiwalay ang mga magkasintahan sa isang long distance relationship
dahil ba bata pa sila
dahil ba wala silang commitment sa isa't isa
o sadyang tinadhana na hinde sila para sa isa't isa
ang pangatlong dahilan ang syang pinakamasakit
lalo na kung binuo mo ang yung mga pangarap na umiikot sa kanya
lalo na kung binigay mo na ang lahat sa kanya
pati sakripisyo
minsan hinihiling pa ng isang tao na mainlove sa isang tao
o hilingin sa Diyos na ung natitipuhan ay yun na ang makakatuluyan
MALI po
dapat sana hilingin natin sa Diyos na yung TUNAY na karapat dapat ang makikilala natin at makatuluyan
hayaan lang natin ang panahon
kung anuman ang nangyari sa isang long distance relationship
hinde kaya dahil hinde sya karapat dapat sa atin
masakit pero dapat tanggapin
matagal pa bago mawala ang sakit
matagal tagal pa bago makalimutan ang mga alaala
but the scar will lasts for a lifetime..
Monday, July 2, 2012
Closed doors
Understanding is much deeper than knowledge. There are many people knows us, but very few understands us.
You'll never find the right person if you never let go of the wrong one...
Friday, June 8, 2012
I forgive you
FIVE TIPS FOR FORGIVING:
1. Don't deny that you've been hurt. Forgiving isn't denying.
2. Make a decision to forgive others.(Lk 17:3-5)
3. Don't seek revenge or repay evil for evil. Let God handle it.(1Pet 3:9)
4. Pray the Lord will release any anger inside you (Eph 4:26-27,31)
5. Pray for those who have hurt you. (Matt 5:44)
1. Don't deny that you've been hurt. Forgiving isn't denying.
2. Make a decision to forgive others.(Lk 17:3-5)
3. Don't seek revenge or repay evil for evil. Let God handle it.(1Pet 3:9)
4. Pray the Lord will release any anger inside you (Eph 4:26-27,31)
5. Pray for those who have hurt you. (Matt 5:44)
Thursday, June 7, 2012
About neckties
The Four-in-hand
The four-in-hand is the all-time classic of tie knots. It is by far the most used, because it is simple to tie. It works well for most types of tie and with nearly all types of shirt collar. It is perfect for men of medium height and for tall men.Conical and elongated, the Four-in-hand is narrow when tied with a lightweight fabric and wider when formed with a thick material.
The Double Knot
The Double Knot is very similar to the Four-in-Hand. It has just one more layover. At the beginning the wide end is turned twice over the narrow end.
The slightly thicker finished knot makes it ideal for use with most shirts. It is also perfect with all types of tie, with the exception of very thick fabrics.
The Windsor Knot
The Windsor Knot is the knot for special occasions. Typically English, it owes its name to the Duke of Windsor who made it popular.
As the finished knot has considerable volume it is preferable to restrict its use to wide-spaced collars such as Italian collars or Windsor collars.
This knot is complicated to form. It has to fit exactly between the two ends of the collar and must completely hide the top button of the shirt.
The Half Windsor
The Half Windsor is similar to the Full Windsor although slightly less bulky, and easier to do.
It is ideal for lightweight or not too thick fabrics. This elegant triangular knot works well with shirts with a classic collar or an open-collar.
The Small Knot
As its name clearly indicates, this is a small knot.
Its great advantage is its use with heavy fabrics and/or with close-cut collars. Do not use it on collars that are long or wide-spaced.
Easy to do, even with its 180° twist, the Small Knot is by far the easiest of all the knots.
The Bow Tie
Bow ties are available in the same ranges of colours and patterns as the classic tie.
Generally black, a bow tie is worn with black evening dress and a white shirt with a “broken” collar. It can also be worn more casually with a suit and a shirt with a wide-spaced collar.
The Humour Knot
The Prince Albert Knot
The Ascot Tie
Love thy parents..
who have brought thee out of the land of Egypt (Mizrahim), out of the house of bondage.
Thou shalt not have strange gods before me
Thou shalt not make for thyself any graven image
(carved idol) or any likeness of any thing that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth; thou shalt not bow down to them or serve them; for I the Lord thy God am a jealous God, punishing the iniquities of the fathers upon the children to the third and fourth generations of those that hate me; but showing mercy to thousands of generations of those that love me, and keep my commandments.
Thou shalt not take the name of the Lord thy God in vain ;
for the Lord will not hold him guiltless that takes his name in vain.
Remember to keep holy the sabbath day ;
six days shalt thou labor, and do all thy work; but the seventh day is a sabbath, that is, the rest of the Lord thy God. Thou shalt not do any work therein, thou, nor thy son, nor thy daughter, nor thy manservant, nor thy maidservant, nor thy ox, nor thy ass, nor any of thy beasts, nor the stranger that is within thy gates; that thy manservant and thy maidservant may rest, even as thyself. Remember that thou also didst serve in Egypt, and the Lord thy God brought thee out from thence with a strong hand, and a stretched out arm. Therefore hath he commanded thee that thou shouldst observe the sabbath day.
Honour thy father and mother
that thy days be long in the land which the Lord gives thee.
Thou shalt not kill.
Thou shalt not commit adultery.
Thou shalt not steal.
Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbor.
Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor's wife.
Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor's (goods)
house or fields, nor his male or female slaves, nor his ox or ass, or anything that belongs to him.
The TEN COMMANDMENTS OF GOD could be summarized in 3 COMMANDMENTS.
The first 4 commandments is about LOVE OF GOD
The fifth commandment is about LOVE THY PARENTS
and the rest of the commandments is about LOVE OF THY NEIGHBOR
Wednesday, June 6, 2012
13 Tips to Writing the Right Resume
Coming up with a resume that makes jaded HR
people sit up and take notice isn't as difficult as it sounds. The trick is to
make sure it's worthwhile reading anytime.
How to come up with a resume that works--now
there's a dilemma shared by fresh graduates and working stiffs alike. What
exactly do you put in and leave out to convince the HR manager that you will be
a wise addition to their company ranks? It's a tough set of decisions to make, akin
to those you make when going on a blind date: You worry yourself sick over what
to wear, what perfume to use, what to say to make the other person like you.
Writing resumes is, after all, fundamentally
a marketing act. It's a way to advertise yourself and stand out in the
marketplace crowd of similarly competent, qualified workers.
Forget about being modest. As career
specialist J. Michael Farr, writing in the online magazine VidBook.com, says, "Your
resume is no place to be humble."
How then do you design yours so that it
comes off not as a pompous recitation of accomplishments the way a politician
may do his, but as a compelling summary of your most attractive qualities?
Remember what your resume is not for: It's
not meant to get you a job. Not yet, anyway. Its mission is to get you a job
interview--which would hopefully lead to a job offer. But think of that as a
long-term goal. First, your resume should be able to get your foot in the door
by attracting the reader's attention enough to wangle an invitation for that
first big look-see.
HR practitioners thumb through countless
resumes in the course of their work. How do you make yours so fetching it
warrants a face-to-face encounter?
Here's a 13–step guide to constructing a
professional resume that gets your foot in that all-important door.
Gather your materials. Begin by putting
everything down on paper--contact details, work history and accomplishments, academic
background, seminars attended, honors received, skills and proficiencies, personal
details, etc. Don't worry about organizing them at this point; just make sure
you don't leave out anything major, substantial, or relevant.
Pay particular attention to dates and places--say, periods of employment--as
mistakes in these areas may leave an impression of sloppiness, or worse, fudging
on your part.
Start with your name and contact details. Your
contact information should come right at the top of the resume after your name
for easy and convenient reference by the reader. Include all possible contact
details: postal address, landline and mobile phone numbers, fax numbers, and e-mail
address. The last one is particularly important, because in these tech-savvy times,
an email address shows that you are, at the very least, computer literate.
State
a job objective. A well-developed job objective statement "can be a
useful way of demonstrating yourself to be a focused individual," says
VirtualResume.com, an online job placement company. If you're responding to an
advertisement, your job objective can be as simple as the position title (e.g.,
"Finance Manager").
But if you're aiming to keep your options open for other positions
within a broad range of expertise, you can write a more general description of
the work and corporate environment you want to focus on (e.g., "To apply
my extensive experience in finance and administration to senior management
positions in a highly motivated, forward-looking multicultural company").
Beware of generic objectives such as "employment in a position
commensurate to my qualifications" or "to secure a regular position."
Write
a brief summary of qualifications. Cynthia Buiza, an HR and corporate
communications officer at a Thailand-based NGO, says she appreciates resumes
that provide upfront a concise summary of the applicant's qualifications.
"I get the impression that the applicant knows his strengths very
well, but more importantly, that he can help me evaluate his credentials in a
paragraph or so." Such small gestures of consideration, she says, go a
long way toward distinguishing a thoughtful resume from the run-of-the-mill.
Your summary of qualifications should include:
number of years of professional experience
areas of expertise and career highlights (e.g., "at 26, youngest
officer promoted to manager in bank history")
unique skills and competencies (e.g., "part-time financials
instructor at the SAP
Academy")
other information underlining your particular qualifications for the job
The summary's task is to make your credentials a cut above the rest. But
make it brief; two or three sentences should do.
Lead
with your professional experience. Unless you are a new graduate, you
should begin the body of your resume with an outline of your employment history,
starting with your most recent work. List down all the jobs you've had, the
company names, dates of employment, titles and responsibilities.
"Don't censor this list; include everything," advises VidBook.com.
A fairly straightforward rundown of your professional experience emphasizes a
strong and consistent work history.
A
choppy one, on the other hand, where you jump from one company to another
within fairly short periods, or have unaccounted pockets of unemployment, will
inevitably lead to questions about your work ethic, your sense of stability, company
loyalty, etc. That's why it's best not to leave a gap. Account for everything, even
for time spent outside of professional work (e.g., "1990-1993—Full-time
parent," or "1998-1999--Study and travel").
Highlight concrete achievements. When you
describe your professional experience, don't just enumerate your job
responsibilities. A comprehensive job description will only pad up your resume;
save it for the interview. Instead, emphasize any major accomplishments you had
chalked up in the job. Use numbers, figures, percentages if possible.
At the September 1994 Professional
Association of Resume Writers' Annual Convention in St. Louis, Missouri, USA (yes,
there is such a thing), invited HR panelists were one in saying they searched
for certain key words and phrases that provided a barometer of a potential
candidate's qualifications. These words were active verbs that described the
applicant as a results-oriented, dynamic individual, such as "accomplish, achieve,
analyze, delegate, establish."
In other words, describe your job in the active, not the passive, voice.
Why say, for instance, "Directly responsible for coordinating community
programs" when you can say "Managed community programs with P12-million
annual budget, 4 employees, and 3 office branches; streamlined program
operations, increasing revenues by 20% over a period of 3 months."
Emphasize
your educational preparedness. If you are a new graduate with no
professional experience, lead with your academic background, honors, and extra-curricular
activities. Don't believe the fillip that grades don't matter in the real world;
in the beginning at least, they do.
As Fred Damian, HR partner of Ernst & Young-Manila, explains, potential
employers understandably give hiring priority to young people who have more or
less proven themselves in academic tasks and school-related activities. Positions
of responsibility in extra-curricular and community organizations are also
reliable indicators of leadership and social interaction skills, he says. Thus,
make sure they're all in your resume.
Leave off the negative points. If you made it to the dean's list in the
first semester of your first year and never made it again, it might be prudent
not to include the details anymore. That is, unless you're prepared to admit
during the interview that after a glowing start, you sputtered to a lame finish.
Your educational background should always be positive and purposeful, to
encourage the thinking that you are well prepared for the rigors of the
corporate world.
Include special skills and competencies. This is important, particularly
in a highly competitive knowledge-based industry such as IT. In your resume, include
the titles, dates, venues, and agenda of all your training activities and
further education, whether formal or informal. Begin with the most relevant
seminars. Be specific: don't just say "assorted computer training," when
you can say "training in Visual Basic, SAP," etc. If you are fluent
in more than one language, mention that fact, too.
Either
include references--or don't mention them. There are two schools of thought
on this: One says it's necessary to include references. The other says this
only lengthens the resume, and should therefore be available in another sheet
of paper only upon request.
Damian, however, advises against using the standard "References
available upon request" line. "It's either you mention references, or
none at all," he says. "What's the point of putting in a header for 'References'
only to say 'Available upon request?'" But if you do include references, include
as well their complete contact details—especially telephone numbers and email
addresses, and also the best time to get in touch with them.
Use
personal details sparingly. In the US where job-discrimination laws
are wide ranging and explicit, "a potential employer has no legal right to
request information about age, sex, race, religion, marital status, health, physical
appearance, or personal habits," explains The Writing Center at Rensselaer
Polytechnic Institute.
Such statutes have yet to find root locally, but it is best to leave out
as much extraneous (read: personal) information as possible from your resume, to
free up limited space. These include names and occupations of parents, hobbies
and interests, birthplace, etc. Reserve them for the interview proper.
Be concise. Resumes are often read in 30
seconds or less so be brief, straightforward and to the point. Use bullet
points to underscore important information. Employ paragraph breaks, lines, and
numbers. A standard resume should be no more than two pages—three at most if
you have extensive professional experience. Beyond that, your resume needs
serious editing.
Proofread! There should be no typographical
or spelling errors in your resume. When using numbers, re-check decimal places
or the number of zeros. Punctuation and date formats should be consistent. For
example, if you write "2 February 2000" in one section, don't write "March
5, 2000" in another.
Make
it an easy read. Your resume should also be visually appealing; a
carelessly printed, sloppily designed resume will reflect disastrously on you. Thus,
make it easy on the eye with lots of white spaces, a font no smaller than 10 in
size, and at most two conservative typestyles (such as Times New Roman or
Garamond). Underlined and bold text should be used sparingly--only to highlight
significant information or to indicate section breaks.
Another crucial point: Use a laser printer. With cheap laser printing
services available even in neighborhood computer shops nowadays, there is no
excuse for jet ink-printed resumes, which easily smudge or run off. Make sure
that the printing is even, with no stray marks, splotches or blurred letters.
Finally, use only high-quality bond paper--either white or off-white. Don't
experiment with flashy colors such as blue or green, or with fancy graphics and
visuals; stick to the simple and straightforward.
One more suggestion: Once written up, show
your resume to friends or colleagues. Listen to their comments and suggestions,
especially on how easy or difficult it is to find important information at a
glance. Then consider all that when rewriting the final draft of your
masterpiece.
by Gibbs Cadiz
http://careers.jobstreet.com.ph/resume/13-tips-to-writing-the-right-resume
Tuesday, June 5, 2012
About Wisdom
Kinds of Wisdom
by Ahmad Ibraheem Sahil
Wisdom is light which is inserted in the heart and enables it to discern knowledge, things, ideas and to understand causes.
There are 4 kinds of wisdom
1 - ability to understand
2 - ability to differentiate in right and wrong
3 - ability to predict outcomes based on experience
4 - ability to change heart in such a way that you could stay on right and restrain yourself from Sins
At first kind one can understand things but still has not ability of what is right and wrong and lives in doubt or confuse state. ie - one can understand the losses of wine but still is not sure it is morally right or wrong in some religions.
At 2nd stage one can differentiate in right and wrong but still is not capable to make strong decisions on the light of causes or can not stop him or herself from doing wrong things and this is still one did not get the lever of cogitation and fear of sin.
The 3rd stage is practical and very tough when one steps in society and face world boldly and get much experience and try to discern things, think on causes and make conclusions and predict further future outcomes.
The 4th stage is fruitful and rarely found type of wisdom when one capables to stop him or herself when action should be taken and when not, what actions should be taken and when not and to what extent and time and so on. - A real wise person is who has ability to restrain himself from wrong and has much control on himself due to its wisdom.
Wisdom gives us thought and forces us for taking good actions. Islamic Scholars say, that those are wise who have faith on Allah and Prophet peace be upon Him and can feel outcomes of the day of judgement which is future and they know where is longer success for them and act accordingly.
According to Islamic scholars the fruit of wisdom is fear of Allah (Taqwa) and in this fear they do good deeds and call others for good deeds. Live in discipline and peace.
Content from book of Famous Islamic Scholar Hazrat Imam Ghazali R.A, Book - Ahya' Aloom, Page 160
Monday, June 4, 2012
Trust and Forgiveness
this is so true.. but TRUE FORGIVENESS erases all doubts and distrusts.. so learn to let go.. after all they came to our lives to mold and change us anew..
Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Monday, May 21, 2012
To learn
learn to forgive and to let go..
learn how to behave when you are in love and how to deal with a broken heart..
learn not to plant hatred in your heart as it would be difficult later on to undo it..
learn not to take revenge when you are push to your limits..
learn how to be happy no matter what happens..
learn when to say no when its enough as people were created with feelings not with a frozen heart..
learn to have the courage to stand with your beliefs, to compromise with issues and not your principles
and most of all
learn how to pursue your dreams, to master your fear
and soar high like an eagle..
- - Elmer Nagsagaray
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I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how gray the day may appear.
I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more.
I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting.
I wish you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger.
I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.
I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye.
He then began to cry and walked away.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them; but then an entire life to forget them.
I wish you all enough...
learn how to behave when you are in love and how to deal with a broken heart..
learn not to plant hatred in your heart as it would be difficult later on to undo it..
learn not to take revenge when you are push to your limits..
learn how to be happy no matter what happens..
learn when to say no when its enough as people were created with feelings not with a frozen heart..
learn to have the courage to stand with your beliefs, to compromise with issues and not your principles
and most of all
learn how to pursue your dreams, to master your fear
and soar high like an eagle..
- - Elmer Nagsagaray
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and a post from a friend in facebook ernie roy a.
I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how gray the day may appear.
I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more.
I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting.
I wish you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger.
I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.
I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye.
He then began to cry and walked away.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them; but then an entire life to forget them.
I wish you all enough...
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